The success of a married life would better be answered by those who have undergone divorce process which would be very hard and traumatic for a person irrespective of the gender. Both the sexes would find it a painstaking experience. This article probes into the success of one’s married life with certain criteria in man-woman relationship.
Firstly, success of a married life depends entirely on the couples themselves. No other force in this world has a bearing on this. The answers to the questions below would shed much light into the success of one’s married life. These questions should be answered personally taking into account one’s partner and nobody else.
Do you accept your partner with all his/her strengths and weakness?
Are you aware of those strengths and weaknesses?
Do you let your partner free to express his or her ideas?
Are you bored of a routine life-style?
Does your talk be limited to certain mechanical responses like ‘no’, or ‘yes’?
Do you make adjustments sacrificing your individuality?
Are you possessive?
Are you skeptic?
How much time do you spend with your partner?
Do you appreciate the good qualities in your partner?
Do you lend your ear to what others say about your partner?
Do you try your level best to satisfy your partner ?
Do you blame your partner when something adverse thing happens in your life?
Are you responsible to what you say and do?
Are you trying to be dominant?
Do you discuss day to day affairs with your partners?
Do you share same belief systems, dogmas and ideas?
Do you respect each other?
Do you compare your partner with others?
Do you consider your partner as a gift of god?
Is your partner the right person you dreamt of?
Do you crack jokes?
Are you very serious?
Are you prejudiced or biased?
Does familiarity breed contempt?
Are you jealous of your partner?
Are you suffering from two complexes-superiority complex and inferiority complex?
How do you tackle difference of opinions?
This checklist will determine the success of your married life. If you find a positive answer to any ten of these questions, your married life is a success.
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